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counter--productivecounter--productive范文Second, don’t deduce your opponent’s intentions

counter--productive counter--productive范文 Second,don’tdeduceyouropponent’s intentionsfromyourownfears.Itiscommontoassure thatyouropponentplanstodojustwhatyoufearthey willdo.Thissortofsuspiciousattitudemakesitdifficult toaccuratelyperceiveyouropponent’srealintentions; whatevertheydoyouwillassuretheworst. Third,avoidblamingyouropponentfortheproblem. Blame,evenifitisdeserved,willonlymakeyour opponentdefensive.Evenworse,youropponentmayattack youinresponse.Blameisgenerally counter--productive.   Fourth,discusseachother’sperceptions.Explicit discussofeachside’sperceptionswillhelpboth sidestobetterunderstandeachother.Anddiscusswillhelp